This ques is for the guys. How long do you think a woman should wait?

I am really feelin this guy and from what he is sayin he is really feelin me but I am going to wait a while before I have with him b/c thay is somethin I want to do and I want him to respect me and as well as respecting myself. Would you respect a woman that had with you after a month? 2 weeks? how much would you respect her? How long of a wait? No wait until you married answers plz I know that is best but not really reality.